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tabbycat
Joined: 09 Jul 2004
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 Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:24 am Post subject: Baby at reception? |
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As you may have read, I had a baby on saturday and i am due to marry next sat. I have got someone to babysit while the ceremony is on but what do I do about the reception. I really want jamie to be there. He is my son and I can't be without him. Just the thought of the ceremony without him kills me, so how do I go through the reception babe in arms?
I love my baby so much that i want him to be such a part of the wedding. But at the same time i am thinking that this is the time that me and H2B should be together. I am torn so badly |
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titianmac
Joined: 06 Aug 2004
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Location: Derby
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| Posted: Tue Jan 11, 2005 12:32 pm Post subject: |
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 Poor babe, I hear ya! Emily is a bit older now so in one way it was easier but others harder...
I hardly saw her whether i wanted to or not as so many people were there that we dont see often they all took turns to have a cuddle and before you knew it the night was done. She did come to me at the end though and wouldnt let go, i had to take off my necklace, have my hair pulled and selfish as it sounds worried about my dress. With James being tiny he's likely to sleep through most of it all anyway! Have you got a relative like mum who's willing to stay sober and take care of him predominantly?? Of course you want him there but you're right about it being time for you and hubby.
All i can say is whatever you choose is the right descision and you need to be comfortable. You'll be swept up in the moment as it happens so plan plan plan but be flexible! (Bit like having a baby really  )
Just make sure whoever is in charge of him has got plenty of milk and nappiesbut be prepared for him to coming whizzing back- its amazing how quickly they find their way back to mummy when a magic moment happens!  Also, daft as it sounds if he's on bottles and needs them warming be sure someone knows where they are and how to heat them because something as daft as that could suck up 30 mins of your time running about without trying and achieve nothing- or something achievable by someone else if you follow!? 
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