expensive night out!

[sarahjay]

Im pissed off

My friends have organised a VERY expensive night out to celebrate one of their birthdays. I will have to drive there myself because it is a way off from me. Its a poxy meal that is costing a fortune and its not my idea of fun but i am in a dilema.

Sadly i am worried if i dont go they will know why beacause i did express to a friend that i was not up for it and she may 'talk'

secondly ... and this is really sad but girls understand. If i don't go i am worried that

a) i will miss something
b) they will take the opportunity to talk about me


Any of u will know that when u are paying for a wedding every penny counts - especially if its something u sont wanna go to

What shall i do?

[Kairy]

I would just go along. I think if you make an excuse and sit at home then you will worry all night about wether they have been talking about your absence.

I know its hard when your trying to save money but its just one night after all. I always find that when i dread a night out for whatever reason it usually turns out to be a really good night out. Strange but true