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gholman
Joined: 12 Jul 2004
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 Posted: Fri Sep 17, 2004 12:13 am Post subject: Mother in Law 2B |
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I see a few posts about MIL2B's getting in on the act and trying to take over the show. I have the opposite problem, mine does not seem to be taking any interest in the wedding whatsoever. She never mentions it when I go round 
I am starting to get really paranoid that the reason for this is because she would prefer that it was not happening.
I just don't get on with her. I can't talk to her, she is on a different planet i think |
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babs
Joined: 18 Sep 2004
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| Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 7:55 pm Post subject: |
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perhaps she is staying out of the way because she is worried that you will think that she is interfering. Perhaps you should start talking about your wedding plans and see how she reacts.
I know what you mean though, my MIL2B seems to get on with everybody except me. Thats her problem not mine  |
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Louise
Joined: 27 Aug 2004
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| Posted: Sun Sep 19, 2004 9:55 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah you should see it how babs has said. If you try to get on with her and she is being distant and unfriendly then its HER problem. I would have thought that it is quite important to get on with your future daughter in law just for ease and for the sake of your son, but there must be something that happens to women when they reach a certain age, they get all hollier than though  |
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Aurora Bridal
Joined: 31 Jul 2004
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Location: Cambridge
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| Posted: Thu Oct 14, 2004 1:22 am Post subject: aww big hugs! |
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Sending a big hug to you, i know how you feel. I havent got on with mine for 7 years!!!! He hasnt even told them that we are getting Married!!! The easiest thing is that they live in Spain but i feel so sorry for H2B as hes gonna try and make everyone happy bless him.
It was hard for him to think of who the best man was going to be, his brother didnt like me wither (im comman scum apprently..) and he desperatly wanted him to be the best man. He asked him during a footie match and he actually agreed, hes more worried about the speeches (more than me getting hitched to his bro!) so im happy about that and i think hes making the effort now that we are finally tieing the knot!
I think you should try and get her involved somehow, any ideas ladies? At the end of the day its your H2B tand you thats most important. Its a celebration of you love and commitment to one another and maybe shes just nervous for both of you (and all the money you are spending?)
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