I can't believe it

[Louise]

Looks like we are going to have to delay the wedding!

We have sat all night talking about it. H2B has been made redundant and we were only just going to be able to afford the wedding anyway, so now it looks like it is all off. We decided to keep quiet and see what the next few weeks bring before we announce to family and friends that it dosent look like it is happening, but I believe it will take longer than a few weeks for him to a) find a job. and b)that job make us feel secure enought to continue wedding planning.

It is bad enough considering christmas without considering the expense of a wedding. Fortunately I have purchased most of my xmas pressies (unusual for me) so thats all sorted.

I have always held back a bit on the wedding planning, feeling as though I knew something shitty would happen.

Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr (angry)

[Andi]

awwe babes

Don't threat too much, anything could happen in the next few weeks. When is your wedding booked for anyway?

Sending you lots of

[Louise]

New Plan

H2B knows a friend of a friend who may be able to get him in at their place. So, we are still planning to go ahead with the wedding, but we are not going to book a honeymoon. I was hoping to go somewhere exotic, but instead we will either stay at home and just chill out, or go on a last minute booking to somewhere cheap and cheerful. Lots of my wedding things are paid for so it seems a bit silly to cancel the whole thing.

[penny]

Concentrate on the most important thing and that is the getting married. The Wedding is just the trimmings you have to accompany the day, and not all of those trimmings are stricktly important!

Good luck hun