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MandyL
Joined: 25 Apr 2005
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 Posted: Mon Apr 25, 2005 1:14 am Post subject: Friend really hurting my feelings |
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My friend who i have known since infant school has said she won't come to my wedding because it is far away and she is not prepared to pay for a hotel room! I sent emails of very cheap hotels that she could stay in and still she says it is too expense. I am sooooo hurt and i think she is just being jelous because her fella is one of those that says marriage is just a piece of paper blah blah.
If it were her wedding i would move mountains to be there. She is fine financially she has a really good job, so why are they doing this I asked myself?. I spoke to my mum about it and she reminded me that i used to go out with her fella (when i was about 16 and it lasted 2 weeks) could this really be what its about?
if it is then it is very petty. I didn't even remember it until my mum said about it so why would she, or is she just jelous about the wedding |
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Corabar Entertainment
Joined: 01 Apr 2005
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Location: Hertfordshire
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| Posted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 12:56 pm Post subject: Re: Friend really hurting my feelings |
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| MandyL wrote: | | ... i think she is just being jelous because her fella is one of those that says marriage is just a piece of paper blah blah. |
It could be, but how has she been with you until this? Could it be that she is having problems (financial or otherwise) and is bottling things up because she just doesn't know how to talk about it? Nobody really knows what goes on in someone else's life.
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amanda4774
Joined: 20 Apr 2005
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sometimes you just find out who your true friends are,hun, my mate did the same to me i asked her to be bridesmaid and she accepted until she found out that her sister my best mate was maid of honour then she refused thankfully i hadnt bought her dress by then, and now i dont speak to either of them,
some people are just born jealous and some people do have genuine reasons but i dont think it will be becasue you went out with her boyf years ago,
the best thing to do is ask her once more and if she says no then just enjoy your day, remember its YOUR day and trust me yul love it, with or with out your so called mate |
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