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sibernan
Joined: 08 Oct 2007
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 Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 12:40 am Post subject: Do you forgive? |
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I got a phonecall today from a friend who saw my H2B (we are getting married in 4 months) snogging on the dancefloor with another woman.
I got the phonecall at 12.30 this afternoon and decided to see if he woke up and realised his guilt and confessed (he woke up at 2pm)
He had been acting like nothing happened, leaving me to think this is a regular thing.
I told him what my friend saw and he denies it totally. What do I do? I can't sleep for thinking about it. |
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zippy
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| Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 9:26 am Post subject: |
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| Is your friend 100% sure of what she says she saw? |
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sibernan
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| Posted: Mon Oct 08, 2007 8:23 pm Post subject: |
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yes she is sure - she wouldn't make something up like that and was not sure if she should tell me or not.
I know it was only a kiss but I am devistated a) because he kissed someone and b) because he is denying it and I would rather he admitted it and told me it was a massive mistake and he is sorry.
I am currently not speaking to him and sleeping in the spare room. I don't know what more I can do |
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sada
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| Posted: Tue Oct 09, 2007 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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Sounds awfull  If it is true then he will have lost your trust at the very least. have you talked about it with anyone? |
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zippy
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| Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 7:41 pm Post subject: |
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| I would be really upset, how awful for you. Let me know if you need to chat xxxx |
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Babba
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| Posted: Wed Oct 10, 2007 9:13 pm Post subject: |
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Sorry to jump in here as I have only just joined this forum. Is this guy a complete arse? You are getting married in 4 months and he is snogging a woman on a night out 
What a complete lack of respect/love/commitment
His denial only causes to make the respect/love/commitment issue even worse.
Sorry but he needs to be kicked into touch  |
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zippy
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| Posted: Sat Oct 13, 2007 7:03 pm Post subject: |
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| How are things now sibernan? |
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subsub
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| Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2007 10:43 am Post subject: |
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| Not that it makes it any less of a crime, but how drunk was he when he got hom? could be he dosen't remember it. |
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