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g.hart
Joined: 12 Jul 2004
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 Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2004 12:06 am Post subject: Babies |
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| Having read another posting about someone finding out they were pregnant while planning their wedding - I am planning a pregnancy too, hopefully after the wedding. I wonder if there are others that are planning a family soon after also because i would like to chat possibly privately with people considering the same |
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penny
Joined: 07 Jun 2004
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| Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2004 3:47 pm Post subject: |
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no chance!
I know alot of people have families soon after getting married, but to me unless age is a factor, its nice just to be a married couple for a while.
Good luck anyway, I know planning a wedding is hectic, but so is planning a family from what I hear |
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Wneil
Joined: 11 Aug 2004
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| Posted: Fri Aug 13, 2004 12:17 am Post subject: |
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planning a wedding is hard but possible. Planning a baby is in the lap of the gods, theres no baby planner, you cant order the baby from a directory, they don't come mail order. I fear you are trying to achieve the kind of perfection one dreams of as a 13year old. Sorry if that sounds harsh but these things happen rather than be planned. of course you can improve your chances etc but I am concerned that you feel you can produce a baby on request.
Please don't take this as being a horrible reply, I just think it needed to be said
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snaggely
Joined: 04 Jul 2004
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| I knew someone who planned everything in her life down to fine detail. When she planned her wedding she became obsessed. of course the plan included becoming pregnant on her honeymoon. I thought it was a bit of a high challenge to set yourself as like you say Wnell these things can't really be planned so precisely. Aaaanyway several months after she got married she announced that she was pregnant. Our mutual friends couldn't help but notice the baby was born about 11 months after her wedding but didn't want to burst her bubble as she absolutely insisted the baby was conceived on honeymoon!!! |
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tabbycat
Joined: 09 Jul 2004
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| Posted: Fri Aug 27, 2004 12:52 am Post subject: |
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I see your post refers to my good self!!
I wanted to be like you and plan a baby for after I was married. I have of course found out that these things happen when you least expect them. And such has been suggested that when you want them to happen they don't.
Please try to go with the flow. If you don't fall pregnant straight away please don't see this as a problem. These things happen in a fate like way.
Concentrate on your wedding and spending time with your new hubby first and things will follow on fine |
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bamby
Joined: 18 Sep 2004
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| Posted: Mon Sep 20, 2004 12:46 am Post subject: |
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me and hubby2B have been trying for a year to have a baby, it has not happened as yet so I would like to point out that these things don't always go to plan  |
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SCramb
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Hi bamby.
So sad to see your little crying icon. Just wanted to say that its perfectly natural to take a while for it to happen. Have heart hun, I am sure it will happen |
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Kerry
Joined: 19 Nov 2004
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Well i for one have decided to come off the pill 3 months before the big day and use condoms, this way my body will be more into its natural rythmn for baby making  I dont mind if it takes a while, I am just giving myself the best chance I can this way |
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